What Do You Look For In A Guy/Girl?

Hakeber BC Rathbne Doyle · Thu Oct 19, 2006 8:37 pm

Smartness
Not-too-oldness
Physical Abilities
Brattiness
Hakeberirritatingness

Fei · Post by **Fei** » Thu Oct 19, 2006 8:41 pm

Sounds like Donald Trump would be perfect for you hakeaber!

WINDSHEAR · Post by **WINDSHEAR** » Thu Oct 19, 2006 9:51 pm

Darth Birdie wrote:Sounds like Donald Trump would be perfect for you hakeaber!

you are funny DB!

Fei · Post by **Fei** » Fri Oct 20, 2006 12:32 pm

Geez thanks WINDY! Could you show me a list WINDY?

WINDSHEAR · Post by **WINDSHEAR** » Fri Oct 20, 2006 1:50 pm

cuz it'd be hard to make a list... if I found someone I'd like I'd see if there was anything I didn't like.

I'm a very tolerant person, I like a lot of things, and I can get along with a lot of people.

Old Brad · Post by **Old Brad** » Fri Oct 20, 2006 1:55 pm

Strictly hypothetically speaking, I would have to say I'd look for the same things as Raskolnikov.

Lord Sesshoumaru · Post by **Lord Sesshoumaru** » Fri Oct 20, 2006 5:12 pm

Honestly I've just about given up looking for a girl. I mean If the right kind of lass does come around then I wont say no but I'm just a bit lazy and have a major tendency to give up easly.

Truth be told I'm not even sure if their are certin qualitys that I could list. I mean if I really thought about it I might be able to come up with something, but as of right now I just cant come up with anything. Perhaps because my mind set is set on single or perhaps because I'm really really board. Who knows really.

Vulcan

The Artful Dodger · Post by **The Artful Dodger** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 6:40 pm

You must remember that these are for in about eight years.

-Saved
-Funny
-Can listen
-Will talk
-Really cares about how I feel
-Understands my personality
-Leaves me alone when I need to be left alone
-Studies the Bible often
-Okay, this isn't necessary, but I would like him to be in the military
-Responsible
-Able to take care of the family
-Strong
-Gentlemanly
-Masculine
-Gentle
-Sincere
-A good leader
-Humble
-Kind to those who are weaker or younger than him
-Protective

not complete, but hey, I'm just 14 right?

-Dodge

WINDSHEAR · Post by **WINDSHEAR** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 6:49 pm

but if he's in the military... he won't be around you much, I think you'd miss him a ton, if you liked him, that is.

The Artful Dodger · Post by **The Artful Dodger** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 6:55 pm

aye, that's the one drawback, but still... I'm not sure exactly why, but I just think I could respect a man in the military more, or something. It's hard for me to explain, so I can't really try to argue about it.

They seem more honorable or responsible or better leaders or something.
Anyway, it's not like it's a checklist, just things I would look for in a guy.

-Dodge

Jessicado · Post by **Jessicado** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 6:29 pm

WINDSHEAR wrote:but if he's in the military... he won't be around you much, I think you'd miss him a ton, if you liked him, that is.

I met my guy after he was already in the military! That way someone else got to miss him when he went through training and went over to Iraq!!!! $\:D/$

Aram · Post by **Aram** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 6:55 pm

Hm.. there's seems to be more of these than I first thought.

My "significant other* is former miltary but he still works in that capacity on occasion..

I can understand, there's just something about a guy in uniform

Macnut · Post by **Macnut** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 7:00 pm

Darth Birdie wrote:I forgot to add....

Republican
Mac lover

Sorry Pc!

Hahaha...that's great! Honestly I'd say Republican should be a deal-breaker because you wouldn't want to be on different pages about those issues. One time when I was campaigning (I was going door-to-door) for President Bush I saw one house that had a Kerry sign and a Bush sign in their yard, attached to one was a sign that said "His" and on the other "Hers". It was kinda funny but sad too.

And we all know Mac Lover is a must!

WINDSHEAR wrote:but if he's in the military... he won't be around you much, I think you'd miss him a ton, if you liked him, that is.

Yeah, that is very true. Both of my Grandfathers and my brother were/are military men. I haven't seen my brother in over a year. He served his second tour of duty in Iraq and was away from his wife for a year and during their engagement he was away for 7 months (that was his first tour of duty). But I understand what you are saying, Dodger. A lot of military men do have a honor and maturity about them.

The Artful Dodger · Post by **The Artful Dodger** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 1:48 pm

yeah, if my mom survived it, I reckon I can too

-Dodge

Lizzy · Post by **Lizzy** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 2:07 pm

Well you asked...
I look for - a man who puts God first
- a great sense of humour (if you're going to spend the rest of your life with me you're going to need to be able to laugh or you will be miserable)
- a love of music (that's what I want my career to be, it would suck for both of us if he didn't REALLY like music)
- Sensitive but strong enough to kindly put me in my place (I have a really good guy friend who's good at this... he goes "MJ you know I love you but... fill in the blank (usually my attitude) needs to change" he's so good at it I rarely ever get mad or defensive
- Integrity he must be trustworthy, honourable, a man of God
- Incredibly sweet
- Love Children
- Adventerous (sp?) I'll try almost anything once...
- Romantic
- He doesn't have to be buff or the hottest thing on the planet but he should want to take care of himself, well dressed (I'm a sucker for a guy in a suit or with nice 'cowboy' clothes)

I think that's it for now!

Renata · Post by **Renata** » Thu Oct 26, 2006 11:35 am

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KimPossible · Post by **KimPossible** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:05 am

JF and I made verrry long lists of what we wanted in a guy one night. Here are some of the more creative things we came up with:

-best friend
-takes everything in stride
-nice laugh
-calming presence
-gives good massages
-smells good
-has a life (not focused on me!)
-confident/comfortable with himself (but not cocky)
-straightforward
-has common sense
-wide range of interests and hobbies
-passioniate about life and God

...and the list goes on and on

JesusFreak777 · Post by **JesusFreak777** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:14 am

ok mine was NOT that long.

It was only one side of one page and half as long as Kim's! and most of those on the list wee hers, not mine, though some were mine.

My list, however, will stay hidden for now, or untl the right guy comes along at the right time.

Raskolnikov · Post by **Raskolnikov** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:28 pm

KimPossible wrote:not focused on me!

I think you ask for too much on that one.

Guys can't help it!

KimPossible · Post by **KimPossible** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 11:29 pm

Raskolnikov wrote:
KimPossible wrote:not focused on me!
I think you ask for too much on that one. Guys can't help it!

No way! This one is very important and non-negotiable. If the guy doesn't have his own life apart from you he will drive you craaazy. Trust me. I know.

In the words of someone older and wiser, "The best relationships involve TWO people."