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-nods vigorously-Jonathan wrote:An important statement, considering the pains they've taken to alienate older fans in the last two years or so.Woody wrote:Using vague terms such as "tolerance" fogs up the moral of the story, making it only accessible to kids outside of your target age range.
I understand better why Paul had it written the way he did after hearing the Whit's End Podcast interview (thanks, Bren!); essentially, the issues were kept vague because the team didn't want to encroach upon the parents' right to approach to the subject as they see fit. However, I would like to point out that the show has taken a pretty hard line against some issues in the past, even some controversial ones (see abortion in "Pamela Has a Problem" or RPGs and fantasy magic in "Castles & Cauldrons"), and that there are issues where at some point you have to step on some people's toes if you're going to get your point across.

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I agree. And while I agree with Focus' standpoint that it is the parents choice when to address these sensitive issue, it would have been better to address them in the regular Focus broadcast to parents and left Odyssey out of it.
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Just as a note, Whit's collapse was not a direct result of stress about the LGT Festival, as evidenced by the fact that he was not feeling himself in Part 1, even before Ms. Adelaide ever showed him the poster. 

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I'm going to be "that person" and respectfully disagree with you on some points, though there were some with which I agreed wholeheartedly.
(For the record, I spent the better part of an hour on this because Notability was slower than molasses in January typing this thing out, so my replies had better be substantial.
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It's been my experience not only that kids can handle heavy stuff, but that people who produce heavy stuff know this. I remember when Down Gilead Lane did a pretty blunt episode about pornography that I listened to and understood when I was eight, and the same show did several episodes that discussed drinking and drunk driving. These shows have the same target demographics (honestly, I think DGL tended to skew younger than AIO), so honest portrayals of these types of issues are not above the heads of children. And as I have said before, controversial issues are not unheard of for AIO, either, so I doubt whether a little more upfrontness about this particular topic would have been a catastrophe.
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Overall, I personally think that the album could have improved itself significantly if we had seen more attention paid to the real struggles of the Parker family to coalesce, dealt with a more complex and human Ms. Adelaide (who was portrayed as such throughout and not as "the bad guy"; there were some points where all she needed was a mustache to twirl), diminished the TV show plot (I mean, seriously, what was the point of Jay becoming a TV star? What did that add thematically?), and erased the Perilous Pen storyline entirely and stuck with the Sleuth Family Robinson, dealing with Jules differently (somehow). To me, that would have helped the "family" theme actually shine instead of being overshadowed by what I consider to be a plotline of nebulous relevance.
(For the record, I spent the better part of an hour on this because Notability was slower than molasses in January typing this thing out, so my replies had better be substantial.

Yes, Buck's character development was definitely a highlight for me. I don't know why, but Buck has grown on me more than Richard Maxwell ever did (though that may be because I was exposed to fans who had these inexplicable crushes on him before I had really gotten to know and appreciate his character). I felt real pity for Buck and a deep-seated desire for him to succeed, and I don't usually get invested in the "Bad Boy/Girl Becomes Atoner" characters.Christian A. wrote:I forgot that I didn't like Buck. Throughout the season he really grew on me, but in the scene where he explained to Camilla why she needed to be content with her upbringing and the way that her family loved her instead of coveting his life... it totally broke down any remaining dislike of his character that I was harboring. The lines were delivered so well, and the emotion in his voice was perfect, not feeling forced or scripted at all. That was one of my favorite scenes, outside of the several scenes that ended the season.
Ooh, yes! I forgot about how much I liked Wooton. Though I wasn't fond of the bloated Perilous Pen storyline, I did really enjoy Wooton's maturity and that someone else took over for him as the team's Cloudcuckoolander. It felt like a return to the Wooton we saw in "Wooing Wooton" and "The Highest Stakes" (which, in my opinion, were two of his best episodes).Christian A. wrote:I forgot that Wooton has been annoying the last few albums, due to his consistent identity as the provider of lame comic relief. Hadley took that role in this album, and it was a breath of fresh air. Sure, Wooton had his silly moments, but it wasn't overdone like it usually is; it felt like he was finally back in character. And his character was integral to the plot of the album, so he went through quite a bit of emotional turmoil and character development over the course of the 14-part episode. I couldn't be more happy with the more mature character that resulted.
I can only speak for myself, but I'm not complaining that the tension wasn't resolved so much as I'm complaining that it wasn't resolved well. It felt told rather than shown. If Olivia goes on a life-changing RoC experience, I want to see it and find out how that changed her perspective, not simply be informed that it did. I'd much rather have heard about that and seen some real character progression than have heard more melodrama about the Perilous Pen, honestly. =/ Camilla's was the only aspect of the storyline that felt naturally resolved, and considering that the thread was set up to include all of the Parkers, that's not a very satisfying ending to me. (I kind of wanted to explore David and Eva as busy parents, although I wouldn't want a rehash of "The Business of Busyness" out of it.)Christian A. wrote:Others complain that the "tension" thing was never really resolved. But what about after Camilla talks to Buck? Does she not leave him with a newfound appreciation for her family, tense and imperfect though they may be?
...Wow, I can't believe I didn't pick up on that! o_O Good catch.Christian A. wrote:(Am I the only one who recognized that the initials of the festival are pretty darn close to those of another association with similar values and aspirations? =P)
You say that like entertainment being pushed for young kids that does explicitly use those terms, or even definitions/portrayals of those terms (and we weren't given even that), doesn't exist. =/ I'm not talking about adult entertainment that kids just stumble upon or are allowed to watch because their parents don't care; I'm talking about material that is directly marketed to them. Kids are exposed to those specific terms at younger and younger ages, because our culture is trying to push to them that homosexuality is completely normal and is perfectly aligned with any moral code—including Christianity. Isn't AIO supposed to represent a counterpoint to our culture a much as it is a safe place for entertainment? (And it's not like there are no such things as parental warnings.)Christian A. wrote:Now we come to the plot that gave many fans the most grief this season. And, honestly, I don't understand why. I mean, I hear their arguments, but the arguments just don't make sense to me. This is a show for 8- to 12-year-olds. And many of the children in that target audience have younger siblings who are not quite that old. Do they need to hear the words "homosexuality," "gay," "lesbian," or "AIDS" being thrown around? Even if it would be okay for their older siblings? I don't think so.
It's been my experience not only that kids can handle heavy stuff, but that people who produce heavy stuff know this. I remember when Down Gilead Lane did a pretty blunt episode about pornography that I listened to and understood when I was eight, and the same show did several episodes that discussed drinking and drunk driving. These shows have the same target demographics (honestly, I think DGL tended to skew younger than AIO), so honest portrayals of these types of issues are not above the heads of children. And as I have said before, controversial issues are not unheard of for AIO, either, so I doubt whether a little more upfrontness about this particular topic would have been a catastrophe.
Be that as it may, most people who push her agenda do not behave so obviously. Those who push the "tolerance and inclusivity" agenda tend to be much more subversive and do a much better job at convincing their audience than simply using words that sound nice and then behaving openly antagonistically when they don't immediately get their way. If you're going to have an antagonist who is true to life, shouldn't they behave more like a real person than like a strawman, since kids are going to be dealing with more real people than strawmen in everyday life?Christian A. wrote:Now, there's also the issue of whether or not Ms. Adelaide was caricatured. Meh, I suppose you could make that argument. There were certainly scenes where she was over-the-top. But I think there are people out there like her who are both inconsistent within their belief systems and also unaware of just how much their belief system affects them. So I don't think it was all together unrealistic.
I remember having a conversation with Marvin D. where he said something about AIDS and honestly, it threw me for a loop. I suspected AIDS, somewhere in the back of my mind, but I really didn't pick up on it. This is why being upfront about your points is helpful (though I suppose I could just be ditzyChristian A. wrote:I mean, come on, would you have ever seen it coming that AIO would feature a character with AIDS? Really?

Yes, I liked this part, as well. It reminded me, again, of "The Highest Stakes" while still feeling unique unto itself. It was definitely a great moment—not only for Wooton, but for the show itself, as it exemplified very well what sacrificial love means for how you live your life.Christian A. wrote:when Wooton confronts him about it..... I don't know what I was expecting, but I certainly wasn't expecting him to go back in with him and sell the artwork honestly to help Hadley pay his bills.
I think people wanted something more out of that storyline because Jason made such a fuss over Whit's health in "Life Expectancy" (and I think Whit ended up at one point acknowledging that he didn't feel too well, although I could be wrong), and they wanted to know if it was going to be really important with that kind of buildup—I think people were hoping for a "Mortal Coil" that they didn't get. (It is, of couse, worth noting that Jason fussed the way he did because Connie's mother had recently died and he was basically recalling the fact that Whit is still very mortal, but I think the expectation was still there anyway.) And when we didn't get a big "Whit's health" storyline, I think most people wanted an explanation like the one that you gave, but it wasn't ever officially diagnosed in-show, and so we were left to speculate.Christian A. wrote:(While I'm on the subject, by the way, I don't know what's up with you people who say that that situation was not resolved. Jason says to Whit, "You should have come in to see [Dr. Graham] days ago," and Jules makes a remark that she's certain by the looks of Whit that all the stress just got to his head. So I really think that's all it was... I'm not sure why people want something more
Overall, I personally think that the album could have improved itself significantly if we had seen more attention paid to the real struggles of the Parker family to coalesce, dealt with a more complex and human Ms. Adelaide (who was portrayed as such throughout and not as "the bad guy"; there were some points where all she needed was a mustache to twirl), diminished the TV show plot (I mean, seriously, what was the point of Jay becoming a TV star? What did that add thematically?), and erased the Perilous Pen storyline entirely and stuck with the Sleuth Family Robinson, dealing with Jules differently (somehow). To me, that would have helped the "family" theme actually shine instead of being overshadowed by what I consider to be a plotline of nebulous relevance.

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. .*stumbles in* 
I'm incredibly lazy and have no desire to format Christian's response, but I am, as usual, pretty much in accord with Tiger, although I still don't care in the least for Buck but am resigned to the fact he's likely to become a regular. Maybe it's because I am a perpetual grouch, but first impressions are a big deal with me, and since I've relistened to GRC at least six times--and anyone who's read my lengthy reviews back in the day knows how scathing I was about Buck, Emily, Penny, and Wooton--it's hard to change my mind. The same applies to your other points, such as with Penny and Wooton: I have a low tolerance for childish humor that borders on juvenile, which Wooton brings plenty of. I understand it's comic relief, but this is a 30-year old man we're talking about. Yes, I'm out of the age range for the show, but still. It's not a bad thing to remain relatively serious for five minutes.
That said, the new actor for Matthew isn't all that bad--I can hardly remember what he sounds like now, so that's probably a good thing--and I don't mind Jules's voice, although her character is quite another thing. And don't even start with Hadley. One Basset is more than enough.
Now. You say Paul McCusker's accomplished a lot--I think it's the exact opposite. He bit off more than he could chew, SEEMINGLY. However, the plot is actually pretty unsubstantial and poorly fleshed-out once you look closely at it, and it lasts 14 episodes only because the Perilous Pen storyline drags out, as well as the whole Haunted Town fiasco. Both are only tangentially related to the thematic storyline of God's purpose for family, and the Perilous Pen is so painfully obvious there's no reason why it should have lasted so long. Had Jules and Vance been a red herring, which I was fervently hoping so, then I would've been satisfied. But it wasn't.
I hardly feel like the Parker family as a unit counts quite as one coherent storyline--they're all having little adventures of their own and it's only tied together through FAMILY TIME WITH THE PARKERS! Olivia's off in a RoC adventure, Matthew is battling the evil villainess Ms. Adelaide, and Camilla's replaced Emily and is now Buck's ardent, No. 1 fan. Yes, we have the cornerstone of family tying it all together, but it's just. .ehh. Especially, especially Olivia. The most important rule in storytelling--in my opinion, at least--is show, don't tell. This is perhaps the most blatant flouting of that rule-of-thumb. Olivia has (so we hear) a dramatic adventure in the RoC, and all we do is. .get it handed down to us, which strips the moment of its viscerality (is that even a word?) and instead distances us from connecting with Olivia and understanding what it is she discovered. And why? No time, because ZOMBIES! FESTIVALS! SCANDALS! At least 10 minutes of one episode could have been dedicated to Olivia's adventure, and at least a significant chunk of two or three episodes to seeing the Parkers interact in a more organic fashion than a very convenient family talk or three.
Now. .Ms. Adelaide. My major issue, frankly. The whole beating-around-the-bush and masking it with vague, nebulous terms like "tolerance" and "inclusivity" not only obfuscate the driving message the show is ostensibly trying to deliver, but in reality, it really subtly seems to suggest that Mr. Whittaker is an intolerant bigot. I think it's a good thing to be tolerant--we should be mature and capable enough to transcend dividing constructs such as race, socioeconomic status, and gender--but what exactly is it that Whit has principles about? This isn't the 1960s anymore, it's the 21st century, and there's no hiding it anymore. Disney's Good Luck, Charlie! had an episode where Charlie has a playmate come over, and the girl's got two moms; the Cartoon Network recently aired an episode with its first gay kiss. Whatever your stance is on the issue, realize this: it's out there, it's real, and there's no stopping it. If you're not part of the LGBT movement or one of its allies, prepare yourself for an onslaught. It's not just on primetime TV--Showtime ran a TV show called Queer as Folk from 2000-05, the first gay-themed show on TV, I believe. Now, it's virtually everywhere. FOTF does no one any favors by masking the issue. Pretending an issue doesn't really exist and trying to whitewash it or dress it up to "shelter" children is, frankly, not only hindering but potentially even destructive.
Ms. Adelaide is not a realistic portrayal by any standards, and that was fairly double-standarded, I think. Christians always gripe about not being depicted accurately as loving, well-rounded, sensible, and rational people; now the tables are flipped and the grotesque portrayals are projected on the LGBT group, epitomized in Ms. Adelaide and the Vigilantors. They are aggressive, antagonistic, destructive, and hypocritical, and seem to have little support for their beliefs. It's so egregiously blatant it's almost a bad parody of the ones who bully and harass women at Planned Parenthood, the ones who drive LGBT teenagers to suicide, the ones who deface property of the LGBT group. The truth is this: each side--and I dislike that term, but that's how it is, I suppose--does horrible things at some point. Whether gay or straight, there are people who push an agenda and do pretty low things to get what they want, though I daresay it's more often the vocal rednecks/conservatives who do the majority of that, simply because the LGBT movement is still a majority and is scrutinized aggressively.
So why is Ms. Adelaide such a one-dimensional character? Why not craft her more similar to the REAL people in the REAL environment that surround every one of these days? How are you equipping children if the only contact they may have had up to then is of an aggressive teacher who spouts fancy words but behaves so hypoctrically? What happens when they meet a genuinely nice gay kid at school who asks them to join their Gay/Straight Alliance? What about the teacher who asks her to write a paper about the benefits of a non-traditional family unit and cites a dozen examples of happy, healthy households? The real world isn't as painfully clear as Odyssey portrayed it. The good guys--Whit, Connie, Jason, Eugene--are not always so saintlike and gentle and loving; and the "bad guys"--Ms. Adelaide, her brother, the Vigilantors--are very rarely so ridiculously paper-thin. And that, perhaps, is the biggest mistake FOTF made in the album, one that sets a poor precedent for everyone involved: the company itself, the parents, the children, and the Other. Nobody wins.
So yes. I'm pretty sure the words family and tolerance and inclusivity got thrown around a lot, and I suppose a sort of contrast is set up and paralleled with the Sleuth Family Robinson and the zombie show family (I forget exactly what happened there now; only listened once). But so little is defined, and there's a lingering feeling of vagueness and irresolution, because WHAT is resolved? What is intolerance? Why is what Whit believes not bigotry and intolerance, and what causes there to be a difference between the different models for family? Sure, each family makes decisions when listening to the show and has the final word; that's no excuse for FOTF to try to pander to everyone's whims. Whatever point they want to make, they should. AIO targets conservative evangelical Protestants and remains vague enough to include Catholics; I'm pretty sure they could flat-out say that they believe that gay marriage is morally wrong; that's what they hinted at in distant, abstract language. All they needed was a disclaimer (didn't they include one, anyways?) and they would make it clear that the parents would have to discuss the issues further with their kids. Just as Whit and the others had to take a stand (even if against a cringe-worthy antagonist), so should FOTF be willing to do the same.
. .and that was about 10x longer than what I was expecting to write; I lost an hour where I could've caught up on my novel. SOMEONE HAD BETTER RESPOND TO THIS

I'm incredibly lazy and have no desire to format Christian's response, but I am, as usual, pretty much in accord with Tiger, although I still don't care in the least for Buck but am resigned to the fact he's likely to become a regular. Maybe it's because I am a perpetual grouch, but first impressions are a big deal with me, and since I've relistened to GRC at least six times--and anyone who's read my lengthy reviews back in the day knows how scathing I was about Buck, Emily, Penny, and Wooton--it's hard to change my mind. The same applies to your other points, such as with Penny and Wooton: I have a low tolerance for childish humor that borders on juvenile, which Wooton brings plenty of. I understand it's comic relief, but this is a 30-year old man we're talking about. Yes, I'm out of the age range for the show, but still. It's not a bad thing to remain relatively serious for five minutes.
That said, the new actor for Matthew isn't all that bad--I can hardly remember what he sounds like now, so that's probably a good thing--and I don't mind Jules's voice, although her character is quite another thing. And don't even start with Hadley. One Basset is more than enough.
Now. You say Paul McCusker's accomplished a lot--I think it's the exact opposite. He bit off more than he could chew, SEEMINGLY. However, the plot is actually pretty unsubstantial and poorly fleshed-out once you look closely at it, and it lasts 14 episodes only because the Perilous Pen storyline drags out, as well as the whole Haunted Town fiasco. Both are only tangentially related to the thematic storyline of God's purpose for family, and the Perilous Pen is so painfully obvious there's no reason why it should have lasted so long. Had Jules and Vance been a red herring, which I was fervently hoping so, then I would've been satisfied. But it wasn't.
I hardly feel like the Parker family as a unit counts quite as one coherent storyline--they're all having little adventures of their own and it's only tied together through FAMILY TIME WITH THE PARKERS! Olivia's off in a RoC adventure, Matthew is battling the evil villainess Ms. Adelaide, and Camilla's replaced Emily and is now Buck's ardent, No. 1 fan. Yes, we have the cornerstone of family tying it all together, but it's just. .ehh. Especially, especially Olivia. The most important rule in storytelling--in my opinion, at least--is show, don't tell. This is perhaps the most blatant flouting of that rule-of-thumb. Olivia has (so we hear) a dramatic adventure in the RoC, and all we do is. .get it handed down to us, which strips the moment of its viscerality (is that even a word?) and instead distances us from connecting with Olivia and understanding what it is she discovered. And why? No time, because ZOMBIES! FESTIVALS! SCANDALS! At least 10 minutes of one episode could have been dedicated to Olivia's adventure, and at least a significant chunk of two or three episodes to seeing the Parkers interact in a more organic fashion than a very convenient family talk or three.
Now. .Ms. Adelaide. My major issue, frankly. The whole beating-around-the-bush and masking it with vague, nebulous terms like "tolerance" and "inclusivity" not only obfuscate the driving message the show is ostensibly trying to deliver, but in reality, it really subtly seems to suggest that Mr. Whittaker is an intolerant bigot. I think it's a good thing to be tolerant--we should be mature and capable enough to transcend dividing constructs such as race, socioeconomic status, and gender--but what exactly is it that Whit has principles about? This isn't the 1960s anymore, it's the 21st century, and there's no hiding it anymore. Disney's Good Luck, Charlie! had an episode where Charlie has a playmate come over, and the girl's got two moms; the Cartoon Network recently aired an episode with its first gay kiss. Whatever your stance is on the issue, realize this: it's out there, it's real, and there's no stopping it. If you're not part of the LGBT movement or one of its allies, prepare yourself for an onslaught. It's not just on primetime TV--Showtime ran a TV show called Queer as Folk from 2000-05, the first gay-themed show on TV, I believe. Now, it's virtually everywhere. FOTF does no one any favors by masking the issue. Pretending an issue doesn't really exist and trying to whitewash it or dress it up to "shelter" children is, frankly, not only hindering but potentially even destructive.
Ms. Adelaide is not a realistic portrayal by any standards, and that was fairly double-standarded, I think. Christians always gripe about not being depicted accurately as loving, well-rounded, sensible, and rational people; now the tables are flipped and the grotesque portrayals are projected on the LGBT group, epitomized in Ms. Adelaide and the Vigilantors. They are aggressive, antagonistic, destructive, and hypocritical, and seem to have little support for their beliefs. It's so egregiously blatant it's almost a bad parody of the ones who bully and harass women at Planned Parenthood, the ones who drive LGBT teenagers to suicide, the ones who deface property of the LGBT group. The truth is this: each side--and I dislike that term, but that's how it is, I suppose--does horrible things at some point. Whether gay or straight, there are people who push an agenda and do pretty low things to get what they want, though I daresay it's more often the vocal rednecks/conservatives who do the majority of that, simply because the LGBT movement is still a majority and is scrutinized aggressively.
So why is Ms. Adelaide such a one-dimensional character? Why not craft her more similar to the REAL people in the REAL environment that surround every one of these days? How are you equipping children if the only contact they may have had up to then is of an aggressive teacher who spouts fancy words but behaves so hypoctrically? What happens when they meet a genuinely nice gay kid at school who asks them to join their Gay/Straight Alliance? What about the teacher who asks her to write a paper about the benefits of a non-traditional family unit and cites a dozen examples of happy, healthy households? The real world isn't as painfully clear as Odyssey portrayed it. The good guys--Whit, Connie, Jason, Eugene--are not always so saintlike and gentle and loving; and the "bad guys"--Ms. Adelaide, her brother, the Vigilantors--are very rarely so ridiculously paper-thin. And that, perhaps, is the biggest mistake FOTF made in the album, one that sets a poor precedent for everyone involved: the company itself, the parents, the children, and the Other. Nobody wins.
So yes. I'm pretty sure the words family and tolerance and inclusivity got thrown around a lot, and I suppose a sort of contrast is set up and paralleled with the Sleuth Family Robinson and the zombie show family (I forget exactly what happened there now; only listened once). But so little is defined, and there's a lingering feeling of vagueness and irresolution, because WHAT is resolved? What is intolerance? Why is what Whit believes not bigotry and intolerance, and what causes there to be a difference between the different models for family? Sure, each family makes decisions when listening to the show and has the final word; that's no excuse for FOTF to try to pander to everyone's whims. Whatever point they want to make, they should. AIO targets conservative evangelical Protestants and remains vague enough to include Catholics; I'm pretty sure they could flat-out say that they believe that gay marriage is morally wrong; that's what they hinted at in distant, abstract language. All they needed was a disclaimer (didn't they include one, anyways?) and they would make it clear that the parents would have to discuss the issues further with their kids. Just as Whit and the others had to take a stand (even if against a cringe-worthy antagonist), so should FOTF be willing to do the same.
. .and that was about 10x longer than what I was expecting to write; I lost an hour where I could've caught up on my novel. SOMEONE HAD BETTER RESPOND TO THIS

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I think I can agree with this. I, too, would have found it more interesting to hear more about the Parkers than the Perilous Pen. I still feel like what we got was fairly satisfactory, though.TigerintheShadows wrote:I can only speak for myself, but I'm not complaining that the tension wasn't resolved so much as I'm complaining that it wasn't resolved well. It felt told rather than shown. If Olivia goes on a life-changing RoC experience, I want to see it and find out how that changed her perspective, not simply be informed that it did. I'd much rather have heard about that and seen some real character progression than have heard more melodrama about the Perilous Pen, honestly. =/ Camilla's was the only aspect of the storyline that felt naturally resolved, and considering that the thread was set up to include all of the Parkers, that's not a very satisfying ending to me. (I kind of wanted to explore David and Eva as busy parents, although I wouldn't want a rehash of "The Business of Busyness" out of it.)
I definitely get what you're saying. But I don't think this is necessarily true of all kids -- not even the majority of the audience that listens to AIO. I think a lot of them are in families that "shelter" them enough that maybe the most they've come across is a pair of men or women holding hands in the store. So AIO comes along and introduces similar concepts in order to give the parents some ideas about how to have conversations with their young kids about these issues. But it's not AIO's place to actually have the conversations, to use the explicit terms and explain them for the audience.TigerintheShadows wrote:You say that like entertainment being pushed for young kids that does explicitly use those terms, or even definitions/portrayals of those terms (and we weren't given even that), doesn't exist. =/ I'm not talking about adult entertainment that kids just stumble upon or are allowed to watch because their parents don't care; I'm talking about material that is directly marketed to them. Kids are exposed to those specific terms at younger and younger ages, because our culture is trying to push to them that homosexuality is completely normal and is perfectly aligned with any moral code—including Christianity. Isn't AIO supposed to represent a counterpoint to our culture a much as it is a safe place for entertainment? (And it's not like there are no such things as parental warnings.)
The fact that kids can hear about heavy stuff and comprehend it and perhaps "handle" it doesn't mean that they were ready for it. There are things that I learned about when I was in the 8-12 age range that I wish I hadn't learned about until I was much older. I "handled" it, but I wasn't mature enough to actually have my innocence violated in the ways that it was. I recall those DGL shows. And I also recall that most of my younger siblings were not allowed to listen to DGL most of the time when it was still airing on our local station. My parents decided that they'd rather gauge for themselves when their children were ready to be introduced to subjects like those, rather than letting people who didn't know their children make those decisions for them. Perhaps the use of the word "homosexuality" wouldn't have been catastrophic. But I feel like there would have been a fair amount of backlash -- just like there was with "Pamela Has a Problem." I think Paul McCusker erred on the side of caution, and I think he was wise to do so.TigerintheShadows wrote:It's been my experience not only that kids can handle heavy stuff, but that people who produce heavy stuff know this. I remember when Down Gilead Lane did a pretty blunt episode about pornography that I listened to and understood when I was eight, and the same show did several episodes that discussed drinking and drunk driving. These shows have the same target demographics (honestly, I think DGL tended to skew younger than AIO), so honest portrayals of these types of issues are not above the heads of children. And as I have said before, controversial issues are not unheard of for AIO, either, so I doubt whether a little more upfrontness about this particular topic would have been a catastrophe.
I can't make myself disagree with this. I suppose I would have liked to see a little less of a strawman. But I felt like she changed enough by the end that it made up for a little of the outlandishness of her character earlier on in the season.TigerintheShadows wrote:Be that as it may, most people who push her agenda do not behave so obviously. Those who push the "tolerance and inclusivity" agenda tend to be much more subversive and do a much better job at convincing their audience than simply using words that sound nice and then behaving openly antagonistically when they don't immediately get their way. If you're going to have an antagonist who is true to life, shouldn't they behave more like a real person than like a strawman, since kids are going to be dealing with more real people than strawmen in everyday life?
That's surprising to me, because I thought it was obvious from the first time we were introduced to the character. And then it was reinforced when Randall says that his body is riddled with things that are trying to destroy him. I thought that made it pretty clear, but, obviously, the writers were trying to be vague, so I can see why you didn't pick up on it.TigerintheShadows wrote:I remember having a conversation with Marvin D. where he said something about AIDS and honestly, it threw me for a loop. I suspected AIDS, somewhere in the back of my mind, but I really didn't pick up on it. This is why being upfront about your points is helpful (though I suppose I could just be ditzy).
True. It could have been stated more explicitly than it was.TigerintheShadows wrote:I think people wanted something more out of that storyline because Jason made such a fuss over Whit's health in "Life Expectancy" (and I think Whit ended up at one point acknowledging that he didn't feel too well, although I could be wrong), and they wanted to know if it was going to be really important with that kind of buildup—I think people were hoping for a "Mortal Coil" that they didn't get. (It is, of couse, worth noting that Jason fussed the way he did because Connie's mother had recently died and he was basically recalling the fact that Whit is still very mortal, but I think the expectation was still there anyway.) And when we didn't get a big "Whit's health" storyline, I think most people wanted an explanation like the one that you gave, but it wasn't ever officially diagnosed in-show, and so we were left to speculate.
I definitely understand your complaints in these areas. Ultimately, though, I think things were kept the way they were simply because of the target audience. Kids are going to find the Perilous Pen plotline more interesting than a drawn-out storyline about the Parker family tension. They're more entertained by Jay and the zombies than by Ms. Adelaide. That's what most of this comes down to. I think Mr. McCusker did as much as he could to emphasize family in as many ways as he could without losing the attention of the average 8- to 12-year-old. And I don't think we can fault him for that. It is a kids' show, after all.TigerintheShadows wrote:Overall, I personally think that the album could have improved itself significantly if we had seen more attention paid to the real struggles of the Parker family to coalesce, dealt with a more complex and human Ms. Adelaide (who was portrayed as such throughout and not as "the bad guy"; there were some points where all she needed was a mustache to twirl), diminished the TV show plot (I mean, seriously, what was the point of Jay becoming a TV star? What did that add thematically?), and erased the Perilous Pen storyline entirely and stuck with the Sleuth Family Robinson, dealing with Jules differently (somehow). To me, that would have helped the "family" theme actually shine instead of being overshadowed by what I consider to be a plotline of nebulous relevance.

@ Marvin: I will attempt to answer your critiques sometime in the near future. =P
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Yes, we can, because it's not impossible as demonstrated by past precedent. The Straussberg separation arc, with the exception of "Only By His Grace" (which contained the Grady story, which, if the ToO thread is to be believed, most people found unappealing), was a story unto itself, without having to be injected with something "for the kids" to keep it entertaining. That arc was one of the best that the show has ever done, in my opinion, and it was not exactly slice-of-life kids' show stuff. The same can be said for "The Highest Stakes" and "The Chosen One". It isn't impossible to discuss family while keeping it enjoyable for kids without the shameless pandering that I think you're implying that they have to do.Christian A. wrote:Kids are going to find the Perilous Pen plotline more interesting than a drawn-out storyline about the Parker family tension. They're more entertained by Jay and the zombies than by Ms. Adelaide. That's what most of this comes down to. I think Mr. McCusker did as much as he could to emphasize family in as many ways as he could without losing the attention of the average 8- to 12-year-old. And I don't think we can fault him for that.
Maybe, and maybe not. I think we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one, because no matter how sheltered a child is, they are going to see more and more of the normalization of homosexuality in our culture. Unless you are a parent whose children remain entirely insulated from the world, you are going to see it pushed further and further, no matter what you let your child watch or read. It will become inescapable in the near future. I think that Christian entertainment that seeks to counter that should be willing to step on some toes...but perhaps I'm saying that as someone who really isn't afraid at all to be as blunt as possible.Christian A. wrote:But I don't think this is necessarily true of all kids -- not even the majority of the audience that listens to AIO. I think a lot of them are in families that "shelter" them enough that maybe the most they've come across is a pair of men or women holding hands in the store. So AIO comes along and introduces similar concepts in order to give the parents some ideas about how to have conversations with their young kids about these issues. But it's not AIO's place to actually have the conversations, to use the explicit terms and explain them for the audience.

In all seriousness, I understand that parents might want to have that conversation later, but the problem with that is that, again, homosexuality is being pushed to younger and younger children. I don't think that it's paranoia to suggest that in a fairly short time, parents really won't have much of a choice about when to have that conversation if they want to raise their children on Biblical values.
But that's entirely dependent on how you learned of those things—was it in a relatively safe environment, through something that had your best interests at heart, or was it through a neutral-at-best-but-most-likely-malicious source? I highly doubt that they couldn't have been very clear about what they were talking about and yet still addressed the subject tastefully; when I ask for explicitness, I'm just asking that they tell us what they're talking about instead of wearing the kid gloves, not that they tell us all of the ins and outs of homo/bi/transsexuality.Christian A. wrote:The fact that kids can hear about heavy stuff and comprehend it and perhaps "handle" it doesn't mean that they were ready for it. There are things that I learned about when I was in the 8-12 age range that I wish I hadn't learned about until I was much older. I "handled" it, but I wasn't mature enough to actually have my innocence violated in the ways that it was.
Re: Ms. Adelaide—her softening-up at story's end does not make up for her over-the-top portrayal. Showing kids a character on the "other side" who is little else than a ruthless antagonist who seeks to push their agenda at every turn, regardless of practical sense, is inexcusable.

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It's 2 a.m., and Christian's yet to respond to my post, but I'd like to say one thing:
The parents are in charge of deciding when they think it's best to introduce certain topics to their kids, but the truth is that most kids get introduced to more mature topics all the time and simply never say anything for fear of how their parents might react. Young(er) children are not to be underestimated, and simply saying "gay marriage" or "homosexuality" would not be the end of the world; anyone who's afraid of having an 8-year old hear that word ought to realize that it's almost 2015. These kids don't need to know about the why's and how's, but just mentioning a fairly-neutral world in and of itself does absolutely no harm and makes it clear to the kids and parents that it's not something to be afraid of. Because, frankly, it isn't. It's something everyone needs to discuss, whether you're pro-LGBT or anti-LGBT. Leaving it at "tolerance" casts everything in a gray, murky sort of moral light and renders the drama as almost. .malevolent because tolerance, taken at face value, is something we all should strive to exude. Only once you define the subtle nuances of the terms, if only at face value, can a meaningful discussion take place.
The parents are in charge of deciding when they think it's best to introduce certain topics to their kids, but the truth is that most kids get introduced to more mature topics all the time and simply never say anything for fear of how their parents might react. Young(er) children are not to be underestimated, and simply saying "gay marriage" or "homosexuality" would not be the end of the world; anyone who's afraid of having an 8-year old hear that word ought to realize that it's almost 2015. These kids don't need to know about the why's and how's, but just mentioning a fairly-neutral world in and of itself does absolutely no harm and makes it clear to the kids and parents that it's not something to be afraid of. Because, frankly, it isn't. It's something everyone needs to discuss, whether you're pro-LGBT or anti-LGBT. Leaving it at "tolerance" casts everything in a gray, murky sort of moral light and renders the drama as almost. .malevolent because tolerance, taken at face value, is something we all should strive to exude. Only once you define the subtle nuances of the terms, if only at face value, can a meaningful discussion take place.
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This doesn't have much to do with our discussion, but I was relistening to part 12 today when Whit is talking to Matthew about Ms. Adelaide's essays and teaching style, and he talks about how if you can change the way people think about gender, you can change the way people think about marriage, family, and even their humanity. I doubt Paul knew he was doing it, but I think AIO just accidentally alluded to otherkin (the idea that you were born the wrong species—no, seriously). I'm...weirdly amused, though I'm also aware that the more likely interpretation is that Whit is speaking instead of simply redefining what it is to be a human being.

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After reading that, and after the minute or so I spent staring at my screen attempting to wrap my brain around that concept, I decided to read up on it. Turns out the 'otherkins' were born out of the 'elven online communities' in the 90's. Kinda doubt Tolkien had this in mind when he wrote LOTR (which is what I happen to be reading right now).
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@Marvin: I'm fairly lazy, too, so I'm probably not going to give you the response you wanted, but I'll give it a go. =P
I thought there was very little childish humor in this season, as compared to other seasons. Maybe I've just started tuning it out, but I don't think so. And I certainly think there were spans of five minutes wherein childish humor did not appear. =P
Much of your beef seems to be with the balance of the storylines -- too much time given to the Perilous Pen, not enough time given to the Parker family, etc. I think we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one, because I firmly believe this was justified, solely because we're dealing with American 8- to 12-year-olds here. =P The attention span just isn't as great as it used to be. Of course, we as older, more mature fans want to hear more character development and resolution, but I don't think that's the case with the majority of the target audience.
I do not think Whit is portrayed as an intolerant bigot when juxtaposed against Ms. Adelaide...simply because of what you mentioned: she's a bit of a caricature; so Whit doesn't even need to be all that firm in disagreeing with her; the listening audience doesn't *want* to agree with her, regardless of what it is that she's propagating. I think that was the point. Whit clearly states that he's all for tolerance and inclusivity, but not when it contradicts God's Word. That's all that needed to be said, I thought. And it establishes the foundation for kids, so that, when they eventually encounter those words in connection with homosexuality, they will know that they need to compare homosexuality to God's Word to know whether they should "tolerate" it.
You're assuming that most kids who listen to AIO will have seen Good Luck, Charlie!, which I just don't believe is the case. The target audience is not really the majority of public-schooled, media-addicted tweenagers. I think the writers are more likely to have had in mind the conservative, largely-homeschooled, Christian audience that they've known for 25+ years now. Most of those kids aren't going to know what's big on children's television, I don't think. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe the parents who supposedly care about their children's upbringing, protecting them and nurturing them, gauging when they're ready to learn about complex issues -- maybe those parents are just resigned to letting their children's media choices introduce them to the issues instead.... I think not. There are certainly those parents out there. But I still think the vast majority of the listening audience have parents who would rather be the ones to guide their children through the issue of homosexuality on their own time, at their own discernment, not when a Christian radio drama that they love and trust explicitly broaches the subject and so they're forced to talk about it when they hadn't decided their kids were ready yet.
"Pamela Has a Problem" had to be withheld from any album release until The Lost Episodes several years after it was originally aired because of all the backlash from parents. AIO had fairly explicitly touched on premarital sex and abortion, subjects, like homosexuality, which parents wanted to introduce to their kids wisely, not when forced to by their children's conservative Christian entertainment. I think the writers for Odyssey learned from that experience. And I think they learned well.
I thought there was very little childish humor in this season, as compared to other seasons. Maybe I've just started tuning it out, but I don't think so. And I certainly think there were spans of five minutes wherein childish humor did not appear. =P
Much of your beef seems to be with the balance of the storylines -- too much time given to the Perilous Pen, not enough time given to the Parker family, etc. I think we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one, because I firmly believe this was justified, solely because we're dealing with American 8- to 12-year-olds here. =P The attention span just isn't as great as it used to be. Of course, we as older, more mature fans want to hear more character development and resolution, but I don't think that's the case with the majority of the target audience.
I do not think Whit is portrayed as an intolerant bigot when juxtaposed against Ms. Adelaide...simply because of what you mentioned: she's a bit of a caricature; so Whit doesn't even need to be all that firm in disagreeing with her; the listening audience doesn't *want* to agree with her, regardless of what it is that she's propagating. I think that was the point. Whit clearly states that he's all for tolerance and inclusivity, but not when it contradicts God's Word. That's all that needed to be said, I thought. And it establishes the foundation for kids, so that, when they eventually encounter those words in connection with homosexuality, they will know that they need to compare homosexuality to God's Word to know whether they should "tolerate" it.
You're assuming that most kids who listen to AIO will have seen Good Luck, Charlie!, which I just don't believe is the case. The target audience is not really the majority of public-schooled, media-addicted tweenagers. I think the writers are more likely to have had in mind the conservative, largely-homeschooled, Christian audience that they've known for 25+ years now. Most of those kids aren't going to know what's big on children's television, I don't think. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe the parents who supposedly care about their children's upbringing, protecting them and nurturing them, gauging when they're ready to learn about complex issues -- maybe those parents are just resigned to letting their children's media choices introduce them to the issues instead.... I think not. There are certainly those parents out there. But I still think the vast majority of the listening audience have parents who would rather be the ones to guide their children through the issue of homosexuality on their own time, at their own discernment, not when a Christian radio drama that they love and trust explicitly broaches the subject and so they're forced to talk about it when they hadn't decided their kids were ready yet.
"Pamela Has a Problem" had to be withheld from any album release until The Lost Episodes several years after it was originally aired because of all the backlash from parents. AIO had fairly explicitly touched on premarital sex and abortion, subjects, like homosexuality, which parents wanted to introduce to their kids wisely, not when forced to by their children's conservative Christian entertainment. I think the writers for Odyssey learned from that experience. And I think they learned well.
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@Christian: I seriously do not believe that you're giving kids enough credit here. The "attention span" that you find so problematic is the same as it always was. Once again I remind you that AIO has done serious shows that weren't all-action-all-the-time that were still very effective and well-done and did not require something flashy to "keep the kiddies entertained". You make it sound like shameless pandering is required in order to keep children focused, which I think is kind of insulting, even though I don't think you're deliberately trying to be.
@Marvin: I was reading your first post, and was curious—what, exactly, is your problem with Jules?
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Christian, I'm honestly not sure you realize just how far we've come here in 2015
AIO knows very well how popular their product is--over 20 million products sold, as they've mentioned time and time again. They've met with the fans in Colorado Springs, they've been here on the message boards, and *many* of the kids use the Internet, and hardly anyone is so sheltered that they haven't heard the phrase "gay marriage." If they're 10, and they haven't, then I'm of the firm belief that they're not just being "sheltered"--they're being lied to, because that's not the world. Good Luck, Charlie! is one of Disney's more "conservative, family-friendly" shows; I've heard countless parents across the the States recommend that show because it's wholesome entertainment. My 9-year old cousin used to watch it, along with Jessie and Austin and Ally and Shake it Off! and whatnot. The actors for both Jason and Spencer, I believe, are Christians, which is yet another reason that it's spoken highly of. Still, that happened. It's not just TV shows, for goodness' sakes: it's in supermarket ads, billboards, Internet forums, casual conversation. A show that has handled a heavy topic like divorce should be more than able to deal with a very real, very prominent issue like gay marriage. This isn't saying the n-word on the radio; it's being both truthful and forthright.
. .and I'm also not sure if you're seriously saying that AIO should throw in more mindless, comic humor because of "attention span" issues >_> As recently as Album 51, we had a fairly mature theme introduced in the *season premiere,* what with Connie's depression and self-hatred, or The Jubilee Singers's powerful historical drama. You're saying that the solution to this impossibly short attention span of kids is to. .dumb down a show instead. Because that's the logical step to make, a delve into the absurd? Riiiiight. Let's shamelessly pander and offer more mind-numbing entertainment and cater to the ostensibly short-spanned 21st century kids.
BUT WAIT. WAIT. That's a double standard. It's somehow all right to treat them like 21st-century kids who have ever-shortening attention spans, the media-addicted, hyperactive sorts of kids. .and then pretend that they're not when it comes to bringing up a fairly neutral word like gay marriage. You can have one or the other, but you can't have both. I'm setting up a dichotomy here, and it would seem that you're arguing that it's somehow possible to treat kids almost as two different groups: the "modern" kid who spends hours watching cartoons and running wild (which would mean that they'd probably have been introduced to homosexuality at some basic level), or the "old-fashioned," homeschooled, conservative kid. You can't have both. And you're not giving kids nearly enough credit or looking at the world very realistically.
The more I think about it, the more I get a foul taste in my mouth. (Or maybe that's just leftover spaghetti.) It's almost as if you're lauding Focus for being dishonest and condescending, as if it's all right to misportray and stereotype minorities (whether it is in the OAC or here, with Ms. Adelaide). It's okay to pretend that Africans typically dance around fires, wear tribal clothing, and carry spear; that the LGBT advocates of the world spew vitriol and hatred in reality. It's all right to essentially deceive children into believing that this is the real world, that this is the truth, and that parents should do the same thing, all for the "greater good" of. .of. .what?
It's not all right. It's building a foundation that is based on a sketchy quarter-truth--based on a lie. And that's not okay.
@Tiger: I think for me, the problem with Jules was more her whole arc, since it felt entirely obvious to me, it was hard to get really engaged. I liked her a lot more in Life Expectancy, actually, back when she really challenged Connie about her beliefs. She did have her moments here, like when she started to feel conflicted about the trouble she was causing, but for the most part, I didn't empathize enough with her.

. .and I'm also not sure if you're seriously saying that AIO should throw in more mindless, comic humor because of "attention span" issues >_> As recently as Album 51, we had a fairly mature theme introduced in the *season premiere,* what with Connie's depression and self-hatred, or The Jubilee Singers's powerful historical drama. You're saying that the solution to this impossibly short attention span of kids is to. .dumb down a show instead. Because that's the logical step to make, a delve into the absurd? Riiiiight. Let's shamelessly pander and offer more mind-numbing entertainment and cater to the ostensibly short-spanned 21st century kids.
BUT WAIT. WAIT. That's a double standard. It's somehow all right to treat them like 21st-century kids who have ever-shortening attention spans, the media-addicted, hyperactive sorts of kids. .and then pretend that they're not when it comes to bringing up a fairly neutral word like gay marriage. You can have one or the other, but you can't have both. I'm setting up a dichotomy here, and it would seem that you're arguing that it's somehow possible to treat kids almost as two different groups: the "modern" kid who spends hours watching cartoons and running wild (which would mean that they'd probably have been introduced to homosexuality at some basic level), or the "old-fashioned," homeschooled, conservative kid. You can't have both. And you're not giving kids nearly enough credit or looking at the world very realistically.
The more I think about it, the more I get a foul taste in my mouth. (Or maybe that's just leftover spaghetti.) It's almost as if you're lauding Focus for being dishonest and condescending, as if it's all right to misportray and stereotype minorities (whether it is in the OAC or here, with Ms. Adelaide). It's okay to pretend that Africans typically dance around fires, wear tribal clothing, and carry spear; that the LGBT advocates of the world spew vitriol and hatred in reality. It's all right to essentially deceive children into believing that this is the real world, that this is the truth, and that parents should do the same thing, all for the "greater good" of. .of. .what?
It's not all right. It's building a foundation that is based on a sketchy quarter-truth--based on a lie. And that's not okay.
@Tiger: I think for me, the problem with Jules was more her whole arc, since it felt entirely obvious to me, it was hard to get really engaged. I liked her a lot more in Life Expectancy, actually, back when she really challenged Connie about her beliefs. She did have her moments here, like when she started to feel conflicted about the trouble she was causing, but for the most part, I didn't empathize enough with her.
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I was unaware of the whole gay thing clear until I was thirteen, and my parents never lied to me. They simply felt no obligation to tell me something somewhat dreadful just because a lot of people do it. The amount of people doing something has no affect on how appropriate it is for a kid to hear.Marvin D. wrote:... hardly anyone is so sheltered that they haven't heard the phrase "gay marriage." If they're 10, and they haven't, then I'm of the firm belief that they're not just being "sheltered"--they're being lied to, because that's not the world.
How did they manage this? Easily. For one thing, I'm homeschooled. And like Christian A. said, homeschoolers are often different. You assert that it's "everywhere" even in "conversation." Homeschoolers don't tend to talk about that kind of thing when young.
And so, I remained innocent. I'm glad. I thank God I was not kindly granted unsavory knowledge that rocked my perception of the world and morality like Christian.
Good thing too. When I was little, I didn't care much for boys' rough housing style of play. I wished I could join the girls in their more sophisticated games and conversation. Would it have been healthy to have in my head that some boys choose to be girls? Some children are to tender at young ages to to question their sexual identity. They don't need that load.
When I did discover it, it was in a Christian newspaper. Tiger, the affect discovering things like gay marriage has on you has nothing to do with the source. The source can be a perfectly Christian one, and you can still be affected. In my case, for instance, I was unable to see right off that same sex "marriage" was wrong. It was an odd idea that a dude could marry a dude. But if people fell for their gender, then why shouldn't be allowed to get married like everyone else? Not a good idea for a kid to have. Fortunately, my parents gently educated me, now that I had come on the knowledge in my own time.
Now, obviously, this is all anecdotal. Everyone's different, I can't speak for everyone. Which is Precisely the point. We can't speak of children as if we can tell them all the same things. Let's face it, children are individuals. Some just aren't ready, though others may be.
AIO, as Paul McCusker said in the Whit's End podcast, is a tool. It rarely oversteps over the bounds of a tool for parents. To teach something parents may have an entirely different opinion on or simply know their kids are unready to be taught, would do just that.
And, frankly, we should try not to presume we know better than parents about raising children.
In conclusion, Whit's End is a place, "Where kids of all ages can just be kids." Not a place where children are relieved of visceral innocence.
Kids of any age want entertainment to be entertaining. There was a lot of serious dialogue, why not take some time off for wit? It was amusing, the investigation sequence, and brief. You speak as if it was given inordinate attention. It was barely ten minutes! Aslo, keep in mind, this is like having 14 episodes in one. Normally, we'd have a comedy somewhere in there.Marvin D. wrote:hat's a double standard. It's somehow all right to treat them like 21st-century kids who have ever-shortening attention spans, the media-addicted, hyperactive sorts of kids. .and then pretend that they're not when it comes to bringing up a fairly neutral word like gay marriage. You can have one or the other, but you can't have both. I'm setting up a dichotomy here, and it would seem that you're arguing that it's somehow possible to treat kids almost as two different groups: the "modern" kid who spends hours watching cartoons and running wild (which would mean that they'd probably have been introduced to homosexuality at some basic level), or the "old-fashioned," homeschooled, conservative kid. You can't have both. And you're not giving kids nearly enough credit or looking at the world very realistically.
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If what I'm seeing on tumblr and elsewhere is any indication, they're not above such things when faced with someone they disagree with. But yeah, on the whole, LGBT advocates tend to be rather nice, polite people who raise legitimate questions, and often even use the Bible to justify their beliefs. (Now that I think about it, that would have been nice to see—someone using the Bible to justify what they have to say. Most of the kids whose parents discuss with them that homosexuality is not okay will be told so almost exclusively on Biblical grounds, and the awareness of how LGBT activists like to twist the Bible to make it sound like being homo/bi/transsexual is perfectly fine would be valuable. Their parents can tell them this, of course, but it's definitely something that the show could have done without having to be explicit, if that's really what they wanted.)Marvin D. wrote:that the LGBT advocates of the world spew vitriol and hatred in reality.
PF, aren't you in college now? When you (and I, too, since I think we are relatively close in age) were thirteen, the LGBT movement wasn't nearly as big a deal as it is now, largely because major gains hadn't been made then that forced people to rethink their positions (for example, DOMA and Don't Ask, Don't Tell were both still enacted policies five or six years ago, and many Americans didn't see what was wrong with that until the Supreme Court struck down DOMA and President Obama repealed Don't Ask, Don't Tell). Advocacy still existed, certainly, but the movement hadn't gained the kind of traction even five or six years ago that it has today; it wasn't nearly as in-your-face. It was a common assertion that homosexuality wasn't something that was introduced to children; it mostly existed on adult-aimed primetime TV, which kids aren't expected to watch.Pound Foolish wrote:I was unaware of the whole gay thing clear until I was thirteen
Now, it has become expected of entertainment aimed at children that it allow for the positive representation of LGBT characters—especially if the creators want to get some Progressivism Brownie Points™ out of it. Outside of entertainment, kids are being imbibed with LGBT propaganda—kids come out as young as elementary school-age. What you or I could have known about prior to age thirteen and what the current members of the target audience of this show get faced with prior to thirteen are already vastly different, and will continue to become more so with even short passage of time. =/ As I say, I don't think I'm paranoid to speculate that there will soon come a point where parents really won't have much of a choice about when to have that conversation, unless they want to insulate their children entirely.
That's Shake It Up!, Marvin.Marvin D. wrote:Shake it Off!



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"And now the spinning. Thank you for nothing, you useless reptile."
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Marvin D. wrote:WAIT HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT I WATCHED SHAKE IT UP?!
Marvin D. wrote:My 9-year old cousin used to watch it, along with Jessie and Austin and Ally and Shake it Off! and whatnot.


"Death's got an Invisibility Cloak?" "So he can sneak up on people. Sometimes he gets bored of running at them, flapping his arms and shrieking..."
"And now the spinning. Thank you for nothing, you useless reptile."
"It unscrews the other way."
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Well, there wasn't anything else to watch, other than the Food Network
My grandmother would watch her soap operas and Jerry Springer-esque tabloid TV talk show Laura, so my TV time was restricted 
Well, there wasn't anything else to watch, other than the Food Network


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