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SoccerLOTR wrote:I think the part about money is important for long-term relationships. Here is why: If one person has liberal spending habits and the other is very conservative in spending, there can end up being some BIG money arguments, especially if the couple doesn't make a lot of money. Money issues can destroy a marriage if both people don't have a similar view of how much money should be spent on various things. Once your resources are pooled together, your life depends on each others' ability to save enough money to get by, and if one person has crazy spending habits, there can be some big trouble. I know a couple who is struggling with that right now, and it is frustrating to see
Yes, for example, since I think all money is evil , any girl who likes shopping and/or stuff can't marry me.
...Maybe I should join a monastery.
Pretty much! Question of the day: According to Bernard, do you think you would you look better than Eugene with a monk haircut?
King Butter Turtle wrote:
Amethystic wrote:Just to clarify, were you talking about the ushy-gushy kissing-type smothering, or the hold-a-pillow-over-her-face-until-she-stops-moving type smothering? Because I thought you meant the latter.
I'm totally imagining AE in a booth in a restaurant with his girlfriend stuffing a pillow in her face while his sister sits on the other side watching.
I definitely had a momentary picture of that as well...And I seriously LOL every time I picture it.
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odysseyfan1 wrote:We don't technically date til we're older. But yeah dating's fine. (Just don't be kissing and going overboard)
There's a difference between 'kissing' and 'going overboard'.
Fallacy of false continuum. // bookworm Any cupcake can be made holy through being baptized in the name of the Butter, the Vanilla and the Powdered Sugar. // Kait
odysseyfan1 wrote:We don't technically date til we're older. But yeah dating's fine. (Just don't be kissing and going overboard)
There's a difference between 'kissing' and 'going overboard'.
Yes one refers to an act between two people lips and the is nautical reference for falling off of a ship .
That too.
Fallacy of false continuum. // bookworm Any cupcake can be made holy through being baptized in the name of the Butter, the Vanilla and the Powdered Sugar. // Kait
I don't think I'll be falling off a ship when I get a girlfriend...
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odysseyfan1 wrote:We don't technically date til we're older. But yeah dating's fine. (Just don't be kissing and going overboard)
There's a difference between 'kissing' and 'going overboard'.
Um, not really. You shouldn't exactly be kissing the first night out together.
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Jelly wrote:
odysseyfan1 wrote:We don't technically date til we're older. But yeah dating's fine. (Just don't be kissing and going overboard)
There's a difference between 'kissing' and 'going overboard'.
Yes one refers to an act between two people lips and the is nautical reference for falling off of a ship .
31899
Haha, well you would be right there. (And to clarify, I don't neccesarily think it's sinful or wrong to be kissing while you're still dating, but it can be foolish if you're not going to marry the person.)
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He's not saying they would kiss on the first night, just saying that there's a difference between a chaste kiss on the lips and making out.
As for me and dating, I don't plan on dating for another few years... I see no point. I'm not ready to get married. =P And when I AM, that doesn't mean I WILL start dating... all in God's timing.
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Termite wrote:He's not saying they would kiss on the first night, just saying that there's a difference between a chaste kiss on the lips and making out.
As for me and dating, I don't plan on dating for another few years... I see no point. I'm not ready to get married. =P And when I AM, that doesn't mean I WILL start dating... all in God's timing.
See this why you shouldn't be dating and kissing on a ship. Because you won't pay any attention to where you're going and you'll fall overboard.
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LJ Gibbs wrote:See this why you shouldn't be dating and kissing on a ship. Because you won't pay any attention to where you're going and you'll fall overboard.
Fallacy of false continuum. // bookworm Any cupcake can be made holy through being baptized in the name of the Butter, the Vanilla and the Powdered Sugar. // Kait
LJ Gibbs wrote:See this why you shouldn't be dating and kissing on a ship. Because you won't pay any attention to where you're going and you'll fall overboard.
Hmm...good thing they weren't kissing there...they would have fallen overboard and ended the movie well before the ship sank!
It was good knowing you StrongNChrist; you taught me a lot. I'll meet you someday for real in God's presence.
Which Jesus do you follow? If Ephesians says to imitate Christ, why do you look so much like the world?~Todd Agnew
Do not be anxious about anything...~Phil 4:6-7
If more of us valued food, cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.~Tolkien
Always vote for principle, though you may vote alone, and you may cherish the sweetest reflection that your vote is never lost.~J Adams
Those who would give up essential liberty to purchase a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety.~B Franklin
I died and became a Roman Soldier--It was rather distracting.~Rory (Dr.Who)
Amethystic wrote:It's Leonardo DiCaprio's fault the Titanic sank.
Fallacy of false continuum. // bookworm Any cupcake can be made holy through being baptized in the name of the Butter, the Vanilla and the Powdered Sugar. // Kait
You have to agree on things to have a relationship. And you need a common intrest. (Like the Rathbones) Such as two people who love music would go great together. Or, two people who just love academics (also known as mega-nerds ) will mesh. You need to have a relationship before you start dating. And don't date in Middle School. That's just stupid. The guy can't protect you real well if his voice hasn't changed yet. (So, Selena will need to postpone marrying Justin...)
Yet another thing that I have never heard defined...
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"Every time I start banging rocks together to make a beat, I feel all guilty and I need to repent for my sinful ways. " - Jelly
"I actually want to see this happen... the controversy would be legendary. " - American Eagle
":hilarious: This ladies and gentlemen is the founding of: 'The Awkward Club!'" - Steve
"Happy birthday, big Mercy! " - Whitty Whit
I wasn't yelling. I was talking with vehemence.
LJ Gibbs wrote:See this why you shouldn't be dating and kissing on a ship. Because you won't pay any attention to where you're going and you'll fall overboard.
Hmm...good thing they weren't kissing there...they would have fallen overboard and ended the movie well before the ship sank!
Yet another thing that I have never heard defined...
Kissing for a long period of time?
Fallacy of false continuum. // bookworm Any cupcake can be made holy through being baptized in the name of the Butter, the Vanilla and the Powdered Sugar. // Kait