Pip wrote:To express the beauty of sexuality. The very nature of beauty is that it is not kinetic. It doesn't cause you to desire or loathe. Can you not merely enjoy the beauty of it without feeling lustful towards it? A painting of a flower is not intended to make you desire to plant flowers. It's intended to please you with a beautiful flower.
The problem is that desire is often confused with beauty.
I think we're pretty much saying the same thing, we're just using different definitions. I still think that you're confusing 'desire' with 'lust', but yes, the ideal situation is as you just described.
Pip wrote:I'm not merely opposed to the cultural mindset that has objectified sex, I'm opposed to the cultural mindset that has objectified beauty.
Beauty, sex, whatever... it's all been distorted and confused.
SoS actually brings beauty and sex together in perfect unity.
Pip wrote:Yes, God gave us sexual desire at a young age, but the beauty of it is that we resist sexual temptations and lust and save ourselves for our spouses. What is the point of exciting sexual desire at a young age? All that does is make you vulnerable to temptation. This is why I cannot believe that Song of Solomon intended to arouse sexual feelings in the reader. The question is, sexual feelings towards whom/what? If it is the character being described, is that not lust/adultery?
Let's clarify some definitions here. The kind of sexual desire I'm talking about, and the kind that SoS intends to excite, is the sexual desire that's paired with the unabiding love of a couple in God-ordained unity. It's a very personal desire, which is far different from an objective sexual desire which is better described as lust. As you grow in an intimate relationship with someone, you're designed to feel sexual attraction towards them, which is great so long as it remains in the context of the personal and intimate love you hold for
them. This is the kind of sexual desire/intimate love that SoS thrives on. It's not designed to excite you in a way that will fill your mind with materialistic lust, it's designed to excite you for a personal intimacy with a significant other.
Pip wrote:Once again, I am not just conjuring this in my own head. Much of it comes from Pilgrim's Regress by C. S. Lewis, which I would definitely encourage you to read, and also from James Joyce's aesthetic theory.
I'll let you know when I do.
Knight Fisher wrote:It was written by the guy who had how many wives... Just saying.
No, most scholars actually suspect that SoS wasn't actually written by Solomon at all, and those who believe that he did determine that he probably wrote it before he began losing himself to woman. Either way, though, does that change anything?