oh my word, that is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. If they didn't like what you were saying (despite the debate of why it would be offensive), they didn't have to listen! Seriously, people do that, and it's sad that they take any excuse they can in order to get special treatment. I have friends that will joke around with their race, and it's cool cause they're confident of who they are and think it's ok to make fun of stereotypes (even if they fit into the stereotype). But other people go nuts if they think there is any implication of something negative against them. I really think it is a combination of being very insecure in who you are and just wanting to get attention. And, unfortunately, because of how past generations have behaved, some people still hold negative views toward other races, and worse, don't try to change the views or question them because that's how it's "always been" to them.
For one of my jobs, I work at a police station. The other day a detective was in the interview room with a lady and her boyfriend. The detective was doing routine questioning and doing his job, speaking perfectly calmly...I started to hear yelling in the room, and the boyfriend storms out yelling something about racism, and the girl was still in there screaming at the detective...oh gosh...he would have asked the same questions and been just as hard on white people, but they didn't like it so they called it racism.
What's also depressing and drives me nuts is that if these situations are reversed (black people saying something against white people) it is their right, and it's ok, and it's not racism. Just because someone isn't a minority doesn't mean that people can't be racist against them too. Asians and Hispanics are considered minorities too, and I've never heard one of them make unjustified accusations like that. I dunno, it just really bugs me that there are all these exceptions. Same with Christianity too...take away the rights of Christians and people call it politically correct and ok to do because it is "separation of church and state", which is, of course, "constitutional" (despite it not being in the constitution...). But if you try to take prayer away from a Muslim or Hindu, you are being intolerant. Gah, this world is so messed up.
And a point I do want to make--those that I have met who want to make complaints about people treating them low-class are ACTING low-class by doing that.
They have sadly developed the "victim" mindset and can't see themselves as anything above that, so they continue to act according to how they feel. And the same can be said for any race. I've gotten it before from low-income white people who think everyone else looks down on them for not having as much money. I've known people with a lot less money than they probably have, who struggle to make it, who have a great attitude about life and have confidence and I'd consider them higher class than some of the "rich" people out there. It's all about the mindset people have and how they live their lives. Act like a victim and you are one--or you will find ways to become one. It's tragic
Look at that Odyssey episode where Lucy and Connie go down to that one town who treats them badly just because they're outsiders. There would have been ZERO reasons for why any of them are any different from "citters"...if the townspeople didn't act like there were reasons.
Anyway, hope I didn't offend anyone on my little rant here. People without a firm footing in God and who don't have confidence in themselves can find any and every excuse to make someone else "lower". I'm glad it's gotten better from how it was in the past, but we still have a long way to go.