Jelly wrote:American Eagle wrote:Jelly wrote:There's actually only two scenes containing nudity.. both being brief and neither coming across as gratuitous.
I find this to be incredibly misleading. Perhaps only two scenes contain full nudity, but IMDb lists a bit more which you may have forgotten about.
Reading a list on IMDB is like taking all the dirty bits from the Bible and compiling a list. Context, context, context. (And yes, I'm going to keep using the Bible as an example until you actually respond to it.)
Heh, sexual perversion
in context is still sexual perversion and is a far cry from Philippians 4:8.
I'm not really sure what you want me to respond to about the Bible. The fact that there's stories about prostitution, reproduction and rape? Yep, it's in there. I don't think 7-year-olds should read a few chapters of the Bible. Milk vs. meat, as you said. I think there's a clear difference between a historical true story about rape and paying two actors to strip naked and act it out. I don't think we should allow ourselves to watch such filth, and I especially don't think any Christian ought to promote actors and actresses doing such acts. Even though such things are mentioned in the Bible. Does that cover everything?
Jelly wrote:All that to say, your picture of mourning parents and exposed women is ridiculous, because you're trying to describe a pornographic film.. which this is not. Those women are actresses who are committed to their roles. They would most likely be horrified at the idea of being viewed to satisfy sexual objectification.
Really? Pardon my bluntness, but a woman allows a man to sensually undress her, and she doesn't expect anyone watching to lust? Her parents aren't going to be ashamed? She thinks everyone will just understand that she's committed to her role and that they shouldn't be drawn to her exposed body? Your viewpoint is noble, but it poorly represents our human nature. The average man can't watch a straight-up sensual sex scene without lusting and I'm amazed that you can.
Jelly wrote:Your focus is so narrowed and blinded right now that you were upset that I didn't directly address parts of your post
Is my focus for this topic narrow? Yes, it has been. I'm honestly not interested in this specific film or the redemptive themes it may have. My focus since has been exposed sexuality and viewing it. I was only irked when you ignored my questions regarding these specific things.
Jelly wrote:...yet you directly ignored large portions of my last several posts.
Just.. read the rest of my last post. I already talked about the kind of extreme caution I would exercise towards someone who expressed genuine interest in seeing it. I talked about how the bigger picture is redemption, and how I'm able to see the light while you're only focusing on the shadows. You've ignored all of that.
I didn't intentionally ignore anything. I either agreed with what you said or I didn't feel that it warranted a response at the time. Forgive me.
Jelly wrote:AE, sometimes I look at you and admire the way you've matured and grown in your faith.. and other times, I can't see past the judgmental, legalistic fundamentalist who used to rant about pants on girls and long hair on guys. I don't doubt your Christian faith, any more then you doubt mine, but I hope that as you travel down your path of faith your heart will only continue to expand and embrace the simplicity of Christ's truth.. that we are saved by grace, that our lives are an exciting journey towards redemption, and that legalism is dead. This doesn't mean to not use caution; by all means, use it excessively. I know I do. But if someone comes along and tells you that he found Jesus in a bar, or received divine revelation from an R-rated film.. don't use judgment, even if you may not be comfortable with those things yourself. I'm just so thankful that the Spirit isn't restricted to all the little moral, legalistic boxes we try to place him in.
Dude, the user I portray on this forum is no longer synonymous with my real person. I'm not judgmental, legalistic or confrontational anymore (since I was like 15, actually). I brought all this up because of two reasons:
1. You're my friend, and you're a man. No matter what I say against your media choices, I trust that you know me well enough to know that I care for your best interests. You're tough and you can choose to accept or reject my advice. I wouldn't have said anything if you were some dude from my college talking about Borat. >_>
2. This is the ToO, bro. You know how much I seek to protect this place. Even though real-life has taken me away, I still feel a drive to maintain squeaky-clean discussions everywhere except Bad Company. Because you're an admin, and everyone here respects you, I didn't feel right in remaining silent. So I spoke up.
In the real world I mostly just try to make people smile and invite them to church, or I just be nice and chill out.
In conclusion, Jeremy, I respect your right to make your own choices as a Christian. We have liberty. You know how I feel about all this. If you choose to disagree, that's fine and I'll never think less of your Christian faith for doing so. Please don't hate me for having a conviction and encouraging you to consider the same.